Cheating
What does it mean?
To cheat on someone... does it make you a bad person?
Can you ever completely share yourself with another human? Telling them every detail about your being, every ounce of truth you can offer. Is it possible to pour your every thought out in front of that someone special, trust them entirely with your naked image? Is it fair to assume that they with share just the same?
As a couple are you not two individuals? Carrying around two separate minds, bodies, opinions, secrets, desires, ambitions and what not... do you share this.. are they identical? Does that person know you to every degree? As two individuals how do you live as one? To love that person and have them love you back.. is something to cherish.. now imagine it being compromised...
To have your relationship compromised is a cheat.
The act of cheating will change the relationship.. it will alter the love shared.
What is cheating? is it simply sharing chemistry with someone other than them... is it fantasizing about others... is it kissing.. is it sex... how do you know if you've cheated??
... do you feel it?
the stirring in your stomach
the pain behind your eyes
the lies meant to be buried from now on..
the guilt.
If you don't tell that person, and they have no way of finding out... and you have no intentions on leaving that person... has it affected them at all? Has it affected you? Can you live with what you've done? Can you hide what you've done? Can you keep it all to yourself??
Can you allow it NOT to compromise your relationship... will the guilt get to you??
Have you cheated?
Did it ruin you?
....It ruined us.
-feel blue, think green, shine yellow
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